10 MONTHS from Your Wedding Day
Start Shopping for YOUR Gown
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Here are my big tips and considerations as you shop for YOUR dress.
- LIMIT WHO GOES DRESS SHOPPING WITH YOU - You’re excited, and you want opinions, but too many voices can confuse and frustrate you.
- You may have an idea of what you want, but don’t close your mind! Often, once trying on gowns, your taste and vision of what you really want will change.
- White, off-white, ivory, or splashes of color? Try them all see what works for your skin tone. Also, keep the lighting of your venue and color scheme of wedding in mind - it does make a difference in your overall look.
- Chain stores have many sizes to try on different gown styles. More upscale boutiques often have similar or the wrong size gowns, and you don’t always get to try the different styles and colors, feel the weight of the gown, and see how the gown flows. Even if you are not buying from a chain store, go and try on styles and colors. Most likely, they will have a dress close to the dress you envision or saw at another shop but wasn’t available in your size.
- DO NOT BUY A DRESS BECAUSE YOU LIKE IT! Crazy right? Think again! When you find your wedding gown, you’ll know it because you will get emotional. TRUST ME, I KNOW after years of seeing it. If you don’t feel something from a slight warming or heart flutter to all out tears of joy, DON’T BUY IT! You will only end up buying another one - being stuck with the one you “liked” since it’s non-refundable.
- Discuss alterations, fittings, cost, and pressing of your gown. Also, check if special undergarments are needed.
- Ask for a swatch of fabric matching your bridesmaids' gown and yours (particularly if your gown is accented with any color). With it, you can match colors with your venue's decor, napkins, sashes, etc.
Let’s Choose our Bridal Party!
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Your bridal party are the dependable, time-conscious friends and family who can handle any associated financial responsibility.
The general guideline is one bridesmaid and one groomsman per 50 guests. No one really wants to watch 20 people come down the aisle before you. It’s your day - keep it centered on you.
Don't forget your supporting cast! Choose at least 2 ushers. Females commonly serve as ushers. Select an MC for the reception. This is a fun, easy-going, and outgoing person who announces wedding party members and transition moments during your event. The MC also keeps speech-givers within designated time-frames. Guaranteed, someone always has something extra long to say!
- Note from the Editor: Another option for an MC may be your DJ. DJs usually serve dual roles at a very nominal - or already included - rate.
Choose Wedding Planning Pro!
Now’s a great time to book your wedding wedding if you haven’t already.
1) They know the ins-and-outs to guide you through the planning details.
2) They often can negotiate with vendors better than you.
3) They have the time, knowledge, and skills to coordinate the details, vendors, handle concerns at venues, as well as receive packages, etc.
4) I can go on and on about the benefits of a professional, but I’ll sum it up:
We keep you less stressed!
You cannot effectively coordinate the day-of and be radiant and relaxed when you walk down the aisle.
Choose Your Officiant
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- Keep in mind, your officiant navigates the ceremony, so choose carefully and consult often. Utilize your officiant’s knowledge of what works and what doesn’t.
- Discuss music, any readings, as well as any religious requirements (if applicable).
- Ask questions on vows. For instance, did you know it’s no longer required for you to say “love, honor and obey,” so some couples have substituted the phrase with “cherish?”
- Lastly, don’t leave questions until the last-minute.
Start Searching & Booking the Rest of Your Vendors
We already mentioned Venue, Officiant, DJ/MC, and Boutique, but let's not forget your Florist, Baker, Caterer, Photographer (+ Photo Booth?), Videographer or Cinematographer, & any needed Event Rentals & Supplies. Search through the vendor categories here under Online and Local on GetWedforLess.com to see if you forgot anything - or anyone!
Note from the Editor: Another fabulous entry from planner extraordinaire Jeffrey Brown! Make sure to check out Jeff's recent post: "There’s no such thing as a dumb question..." It's a great reminder about why not to neglect to ask anything of wedding vendors, and it can save you money and headache later. Also, may I also recommend one of our most popular blogs? "The Right Dress For Your Body" by fashion blogger Lisa Tran of T. Rose International Bridal Shows has a wealth of helpful tips for your search!